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Dating Single Moms: A Perspective from a Man Navigating a Complex World

This isn’t a topic I’ve fully figured out yet. It’s something I’m still exploring, still trying to understand. If you’ve read parts of my story, you might start to see the pattern—there’s been a lot of abuse, manipulation, harassment. Efforts to keep me single, to control who I date to the point even legit connections were interferred with. I’ve come to realize that being a single parent is already one of the toughest jobs there is. It’s meant to be a two-person effort, supported by a community, a village. But in America, it seems like there’s been a systematic effort to dismantle that support system, to remove one or even both parents from the equation, leaving children vulnerable and exposed to a community of predators.

I might have a child, I was asking for a paternity test since my ex-wife in the fraudulent marriage was cheating on me the entire time with her High-School lesbian lover and her husband and who knows whom else in their hilarity and mockery of it all. So I may be a single-dad eventually, if the child has not been murdered or trafficked already. The State of America.

For whatever reason, I’ve noticed that effort more clearly in my own experiences. I’ve dated a handful of single moms, and these are my honest thoughts and feelings about that. I choose not to pursue long-term relationships with single moms anymore nor bother with short term engagement in the want of mutual release and companionship. It’s not because I don’t respect what they’re going through, but because of what I’ve seen and experienced—especially the dark underbelly that lurks beneath.

In Central Florida and Swansboro N.C., I began to notice a disturbing pattern. There appeared to be a concerted effort to project onto me the very crimes that had been exposed during my divorce in Georgia—crimes which I had reported to local, state, and federal authorities. These included serious allegations of child abuse and, disturbingly, a network of adults using their positions to influence election outcomes as well as peoples health and finances. This pattern of projection seems to reflect a broader tendency to redirect accusations and serve particular narratives. I’ve yet to receive any official communication about these reports, but I’ve been subjected to relentless cyberstalking, gangstalking, and harassment at my workplaces as well as residences. After reporting the evidence uncovered during the discovery phase to my retained attorney at the time and the ATF, as I started to have people come into my gun store with ulterior motives, the attorney and the Georgia Bureau of Investigation advised me to take that to the CLEO where the crimes alledgedly took place and had that CLEO conspire to have me silenced about the crimes occuring under his umbrella by issuing a Governor's Warrant to have me arrested.. and I was. These efforts have pushed me into poverty and homelessness.

Side note: Not one of the individuals I reported this information to offered guidance on what to look out for or how to proceed—such as reporting potential workplace harassment to the appropriate authorities. Instead, I was simply thanked for the information, and then I faced harassment, poisoning attempts, a few life-threatening incidents, disappearing crews, and entrapment schemes. It has been an absolute fraud committed against the world, America, my persons and social security number for merely broaching the subject of organized child abuse and voter fraud. There should be anger and outrage.. make no mistake that there is here, no doubt about it, but sometimes you have to remain calm the best you can, create a paper trail the best you can, and document it the best you can. This was a web of corruption.
It is nothing but paper fun money to the people who were exposed in North Georgia and nothing for them to entice the woman in this materialistic society that I am being intimate with to lie. That's really the basis of the majority of this blog post.

Single moms, not widows—there’s a difference—often seem to want to be treated like their womb did the work for you. Like it was you that nutted in them and they were not on birth control or decided to make someone money at the local abortion clinic and someone who cheers it on following numbers on a dry erase board. Like their worth is tied solely to the act of giving birth to another man and you should respect that. Unless they’re jaded from past relationships, they want a man, a father figure, a masculine, to step in and fill a role their biological father or partner once did. They want that support, that stability, that sense of being valued beyond just the act of reproduction.

Trust is a major issue for me. I’ve learned that the same people running schemes of kompromat—blackmail, manipulation—are often following a playbook straight out of communist propaganda: accuse others of what they themselves are guilty of. That pattern showed up again in Swansboro, North Carolina, during a time I was homeless. I was fortunate to meet a woman who owned a large house and needed help with repairs. She had an "employee" from Washington, D.C., with children, come down to assist. Something felt off from the start—like they were setting me up for false accusations. I kept it simple, polite, introduced myself to Chelsea and her girlfriend, and kept my distance. I chatted with the adults and listened to the adults and kept an ear out for the kids as they were playing; were coached—say things like “my back hurts”—trying to manipulate the situation. I had no intentions of staying in that house that night or any night the "employee" and her kids were in town, I protected myself, recorded what I could, packed my over night bag and went to the local gym who had a key-fob 24/7 access did a couple work outs and slept soundly. The "employee" on vacation left early.. go figure.

Single moms are often “easy” targets if you’re genuine because they see the qualities they are missing from the absent father. Being a single parent is a hard, chores is an understatement, thankless job in most situations, many are programmed to expect that treatment—like their womb did the work, so now they expect you to carry the weight and they judge you in that lens. But not all. And that’s part of what drives my decisions, protecting myself. When a woman shows interest, then suddenly mentions she’s has kids, that’s a clear goodbye from me. The system has become so broken, so twisted, that it’s hard to trust the intentions anymore and do we truly know anyone? Especially when there is outside manipulation.

The American experience right now feels like a social and medical experiment gone wrong—like a legacy of dark history removed from mass produced educational materials and edited religious texts, from Operation Paperclip to the Bolshevik influences in the USSR migrating to America after WW2, all tangled in a web of deception and control. Alledged mortal enemies here in America as the people vote for Red or Blue. Did you know that Adolf Hitler, the figurehead of the Nazi's, and the Bolshevik leadership use to meet in the same place and times at Cafe Central in Vienna? We were not taught that in public school here in America. The more we see, the more we realize that the fabric of society has been pulled apart and stitched back together with lies, manipulation, and betrayal.
"The Nazis did not lose the war; the German people did"

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A lot of the truth and issues going on in America and the world, "anti-christian" activity lies inside this document, a Warning to General George Washington on 22 August 1798.

Honestly, I’m just trying to navigate this mess like the rest, stay true to myself the best I can while understanding because of the exposure of international corruption some people feel obligated to be lame as fuck to me. Everyone is trying to constantly make sense of a world and the reasons they are here and the answers and reasons we are given often feels upside down. Dating single moms? It’s a complex landscape, filled with stories of pain, survival, and sometimes, deception on his part or hers sometimes both. But at the core, it’s about understanding that trust is hard-earned and even harder to give freely anymore. Some men are not capable of having children or there is an agreement by the womb of the woman to have another child with the man and create the family dynamic, those are the strongest. But to just be with a woman because she gives access to the release valve and ignoring that her innate desire to have a father figure in her life is there, wether she expresses it or is just straight up honest with you with her intentions which is seemingly rare. An honest conversation of what she expects and when she says she does not want you to be her childs dad, it is a lie because that child needs a strong masculine figure in their life, take it from someone who came from a broken home and a fraudulent mother figure. I know dudes can be as deceptive as can be to get what they want and women can reciprocate.